Text Your Ex Back – How To Use Text Messages To Make Your Ex Want You Back Again
You have probably already heard about the NO CONTACT RULE, which advises you to cut off all contact with your ex for a certain period of time. This is some sound advice and something that you should try to look into. If you have heard this expert advice, you are probably wondering how texting your ex could get them back, especially if the so called ‘gurus’ are against it.
You are right to question the whole texting concept because when you are trying to get your ex back, every move that you make is crucial. You do not want to be doing anything that will end up being detrimental and impede your chances of getting back together. So let’s look at how you can use text messages positively to get your ex’s attention and make them want you back.
Texting is a much safer form of communication than ringing someone or seeing them face-to-face. It essentially means that neither of you feel intimidated when you start communicating through text. This is why it is a good idea to delay texting your ex immediately after a break up. Give them a chance to come to terms with the break up. It will also provide you with the opportunity to get your emotions under control.
What you say in your messages is very important, you cannot just blindly text your ex back with silly and meaningless messages. It will be glaringly obvious to your ex that you are desperate to hear from them if you send one-word messages saying ‘hi’ or asking them loads of questions in the hope of a response.
Instead you should be clever about what you write. You want to appear as if you are okay about the break up, that you are mature and calm, and that you are in a good fame of mind. Pretty hard to do all in one text you might think. Well it isn’t if you actually sit down and think about it first.
Abide by these top rules and your texts will be very powerful in drawing your ex back to you
- Do not ask any questions
- Do not just say ‘hi’ or ‘how are you?’
- Be positive and upbeat, but not over the top
- Compliment your ex in a subtle way
- Remind your ex about something in your past to make them reminisce
- Do not come across as needy or desperate
- Do not talk about the break up
- Do not sound bitter or angry
- Keep it short and to the point
