What is your ex boyfriend going through when you stop calling him
The moment you stop calling your ex boyfriend, he’s going to be like a rubber band. I’m serious… let me explain. A rubber band doesn’t have any “tension” when it’s just sitting at your table. Similarly, if you are trying to get him back by talking with him and showing up in his face – there won’t be any “tension” between you two.
What happen is… when you stop calling him – that’s where he starts to feel a useful “tension.” He’s going through all kinds of emotions such as loneliness… something you’d want him to feel when you are trying to know how to get him back. You see, as humans we don’t like to change things so much. We always want to keep the status quo. You know this is true in your own experience right? He’ll get lonely because he will miss the companionship and the comfort he had with you when you were still together. This is what I mean by useful “tension” – he’s like a rubber band building tension as you stretch it out.
He will also feel regret about breaking up with you. He will start to question if he made a mistake about breaking up with you. He is also going to be intrigue on what you are up to since you are being distant to him. You see what’s happening now? He is regretting his decision and THINKING about YOU! So, if you want to get him back, you should keep on making him feeling this way to keep building more tension.
